Ghanaian playwright, motivational speaker and author Uncle Ebo Whyte has advised women not to ever think that they can change who a man is because of his love for her.
According to Uncle Ebo no one can change because they are in love but only change if they want to do so for a partner.
The author made this comment while speaking in an interview on TV3. He strongly believe that it’s not possible for a woman to change a man.
“Let’s start with the basics,” he began, “The only person you have control over is yourself. Nobody else can be changed. No! You can’t change me once we’re in a love relationship. But I have the option of making a change for you.”
“I’ll have to get to the point where I realize, you know what, I deserve better.” I’m capable of doing better. I am a better person, so I can do better.”
When it comes to love, I admire women’s optimistic outlook.” However, a woman creates the home, whereas a man does not. Treating him does not imply forcing him. So there’s this whole crusade of women saying, “I’m going to change him.” No!, he stressed.
“The principle is that you can only change yourself, but they can choose to change.” People make their own decisions. So, please retire, all of you with the saviour mentality (I will save him and turn him),” he concluded.